|NASHVILLE (BP) -- The blogosphere has been buzzing about the recent incident involving Pastor Alois Bell of the Truth in the World Deliverance Ministries Church and Applebee's server Chelsea Welch. If you haven't heard about the incident, here is a quick recap:
Pastor Bell, eating in a party of 10, was believed to have stiffed a coworker of Chelsea's on her tip (that was later disputed). Perhaps most disturbingly, Ms. Bell commented on the receipt that she was a pastor and only gave God 10 percent -- "I give God 10%. Why do you get 18" for such a large party? Chelsea took the receipt and posted a picture of it online as a joke and it went viral. Subsequently, Applebee's fired Chelsea and Pastor Bell has been publicly shamed in the media.
This whole incident has enflamed a long burning discussion about the stereotype of the conduct and courtesy (or lack thereof) that many Christians display toward servers, waitresses, valets and others in the service industry. Among other things, the "Sunday morning crowd" at restaurants has a bad reputation.
But why does this stereotype exist? Because, in large part, many servers think it is true. Many Christians do as well. But, what does the research say?
According to the only study of which I am aware, published last year in the Journal of Applied Psychology, it appears that "Christians as bad tippers" is not supported by the stats. In their study, "Are Christian/Religious People Poor Tippers?," Michael Lynn and Benjamin Katz explain:
"The results of this study produced three notable findings about the relationships between religion and tipping. First, Jews and those with no religion tip significantly more than Christians and members of other religions. However, the average Christian tips 17 percent of the bill when receiving good restaurant service and only 13 out of 100 Christians receiving good service leave a tip below 15 percent of the bill. Second, worship frequency has no significant main effect on reported tipping. Third, worship frequency significantly interacts with service quality such that the effects of service quality on tips were stronger the less frequently the tipper attends religious services."
You can read their whole report at http://tippingresearch.com/uploads/ChristianTippersJASPaccepted.pdf and it would be worth doing so before saying that your personal experience trumps the research.
So, again, facts are our friends -- but in this case, perception is not our friend. And, perception is reality. That perception is real and is, I believe, hurting the reputation of Christians.
So, how do we deal with such a perception? In an article at the Christianity Today Her•meneutics blog, Karen Swallow Prior gives some helpful advice:
"Eating out is expensive. But if diners can't afford all of the expected expenses of eating out, they should go to an establishment they can afford, or not go out at all. ... Maybe some folks don't know that the minimum wage for servers is lower than for everyone else, or that the percentage for tips increases like everything else. ... Tips are payment for services rendered."
"I don't think that Paul had servers in mind when he exhorted believers, "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God," but the principle certainly does apply. Those who are to represent Christ in all they do should remember that includes paying the check -- in total -- at the end of the meal." Continued...